Wednesday, December 28, 2011

2011 An Overview Part 2








Mum came out to visit in March and celebrated her 75 birthday in Manila. We holidayed in Batangas @ Stilts www.stiltscalataganbeachresort.net and Coral beach club www.coralbeach.ph/ and then in returned to Bataan Montemar beach club www.montemar.com.ph

Stilts ( a location from the film) has a perfect location, nice accommodation but is overpriced for the service and restaurant which serves only basic Filipino fare. Coral beach club has great rooms and is good value with the best food we have had for ages. However the location is not as great beach wise. All the same somewhere we will return to quick getaways. Montemar has undergone some further upgrades since we were last there and their restaurant has improved as have the rooms . The beach is as always spotless and clean. Good value off peak or for large groups sharing rooms. The best are the ones fronting the beach (and of course the most expensive)We enjoyed all 3 locations, even though we were kept up all night by Karaoke by Stilts they did not charge us for that night and were very apologetic.

Marc was off in the UK training for his new job during this time in March /April and returned to Scotland to see family for the first time in 4 years. He also spent time in London catching up on some curries and very expensive pints.
After Easter the kids started at the British school in Manila www.britishschoolmanila.org which has been a very positive experience . The classes are small, the kids and parents very friendly and they both are thriving both academically and emotionally. They follow the UK system and at 16 they choose IB or A levels. The kids obviously gained a huge amount from being exposed to Philippine culture as we have now lived here for almost 5 years (being able to sing the national anthem is a good party trick!) but the curriculum was becoming too limited for Gianna along with weird gender stereotyping and religious indoctrination, whilst Angelica was not learning at all within the huge class sizes. The transition was easy for Angelica but took a little longer for Gianna as she had to leave her old friends behind and start afresh as a teen which is rather more challenging. She’s still keeping up with the old crowd which is good, she hasn’t lost old friends but gained new ones !!!

The move to the British school was made possible by my work opting to pay for the kids education at International school rather than me leaving for another job and final recognition for the stress and hard work of the last 2 years getting WGNRR back on track. I have enjoyed the work much much more this last year as I have gained more confidence on SRHR content and policy issues as oppose to solely focussing on management issues. The team are a great bunch of people and we have fun in our globetrotting around the world. I managed to keep the travel fairly low for the first half of the year, but was back on the road 3 times in the last quarter in elsewhere in Asia, Europe and Africa. The travel remains a challenging issue for the kids especially Angelica and hopefully with new staff members joining in 2012, I can cut down again.

At the same time the kids switched schools Marc began his work at the British Embassy so things all of sudden began to look much more settled in The Philippines . I have a 2 year contract with a possible extension so looks like will be at least 7 years total in The Philippines by by the time we leave !!!! way more time than I could ever have imagined....

I was in Amsterdam in May and popped over to celebrate Michaels birthday. jacqui came down so was a family reunion night out!! The next day I went to Dublin nursing a sore head and caught up with Derval, Graziano and Family and then Marion who has developed a career in TV chat shows alongside a revitalised career in Law!! watched her set off for studios then on TV a few hours later...all very glamorous

2011 - An overview part 1




2011 has been a whirlwind of activity and globe trotting, with our lives in the Philippines improving in many important ways with the likelihood of a further 2 to 3 years here. Xmas and new year was spent in Thailand with Claire, Jeff and kids a hugely successful trip with new year let in from a balcony in Bangkok watching the city’s fireworks. The start of an amazing year 
January and February 2011 was taken up with the film making which will have its worldwide release at the Berlin film festival in February 2012.

Marc and I are listed on the official festival programme next to Isabel Huppert which feels rather strange as we played along side Filipino superstars and winners of international awards. Both marc and myself have appeared in as extras in Nat Geo programmes, and get invited to do castings for extras from time to time for commercials etc but often we are too busy with our day jobs to pursue. Not exactly Oscar nominated film stars but its a fun way to make a few quid.....an an unlikely mid life career change .

Angelica had her 7th birthday in March at Chillis a restaurant and finally got a puppy for her birthday, a local Askal (street dog). I also finally got my Wheels  and became a Manila driver ..... Having the car has transformed our lives, I drive the kids to school as many days as I can and share in a car pool with other parents, and we have been out of manila on a number of trips...its great to have the freedom to explore more and stop where we please although to be honest the greatest benefit is being able to jump i the car and do the shopping, drop the kids off at “play” dates without walking or taking taxis, especially in the rainy season 

Gianna graduated from Grade school with a formal ceremony, gown and hat as well as the ball!!

Saturday, February 5, 2011

The most amazing experience ................














































Finally finished the film yesterday and wow what an amazing adventure...I would not have believed anyone 2 months ago telling me I would feature in a movie .....even more surprising is the news that apparently I am a great actress .....as told to me by both the Director Brillante Mendoza (Best Director Cannes 2010) and Isabelle Huppert award winning french actress http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isabelle_Huppert . Apparently I did scenes that moved everyone on set including The Director and the very experienced actors - I believe it was all down to the magic of Brilliante. There is no script and you never know whats happening until u shoot. The actors are told to stay in character and then react to the situations you are placed in. There was constant surprises and we seemed to be for ever dodging bullets and explosions. My character had to be scared and emotional ...well that was not hard, believe me as, u never knew when the next squib would explode or you would be dragged off to a new camp in the jungle ....
We saw a tiny tiny section of the film last night at the cast party and it looks amazing - everyone expects it to do well at Cannes this year in May. The film will be very scary I think and definitely x rated - I spent most of the film screaming and being chased through the jungle...but also spent 5 days at sea with my fellow captives. It helped that our abductors were all gorgeous to look at ...as for a long time that's all we could do .
I made a whole new set of wonderful friends . The bond between everyone on set was very very close partially as we had to live together for weeks. At night there was a lot of fun and letting our hair down together, but once back on set we all assumed our roles again .....and our drinking pals from the night before would once again become the hardened terrorists ....
The film itself was french financed and a very big project ....I don't think we are supposed to share too many details or pictures until the film is actually released but in the few photos here, u see Marc and I at the end, after his sad demise via a bullet to the chest ...hence all the blood.
Iam rescued by the solders and fly away at sunset in the helicopter ......theres also a picture of us all eating lunch in the jungle watched by the ever present audience that followed us wherever we went. As many of the cast are very famous here we got used to lots of people screaming at us and signing autographs (people just assumed we were famous hollywoods actors I think :)
I had to work as much as I could whilst filming so a regular sight on set was me at my laptop....I have to thank everyone at work for letting me do this and of course the kids for being so patient and Rishita and Fedra for moving into our house to look after them. They had a ball at weekends when they were brought to the set. The locations for the shoots were so beautiful and Marc and I saw some amazing scenery that we would not have ever visited by ourselves as hidden away in the jungle. One of the most spectacular sights in Subic was 1000s of huge fruit bats ( and I mean huge) flying in the beautiful sunset. When I can I will post more pictures and information
The only shame was that I was made to look so terrible for the movie. Everyday in makeup they would add years to me and cover me in mud, mosquito bites, cuts and brusies .....it didnt help that many of the actresses were so dam good looking, particually the beautiful Mercedes who I was roped to for days.....http://www.facebook.com/mercedes.cabral